Sleep Training

Throughout my medical training, I thought to put an infant to sleep; was as simple as putting them down in a bassinet or a crib. When parents approached me complaining of how difficult it was to get their infant to sleep; I would think to myself, “put them down and that’s that!” After my daughter Madi was born, I realized how challenging it is to get your child to sleep in their own crib or bassinet, and to sleep for more than a few hours at a time.
The first few months of Madi’s sleep challenging, but I expected it. As a family doctor, I knew that infants are not to sleep through the night until they are around four months old. I would breastfeed to sleep and gently transfer her to the bassinet, but the motion would cause her to wake and they would have to repeat the bedtime routine all over again. As she would wake up every three to four hours; they ended up doing this at least three times per night.

The sleep training

My husband and I exhausted, but they assumed that if they could make it to four months; would all sleeping through the night. In my medical practice; I have reassured many parents that sleep training is safe so long as periodic checks are made. As a mother; I could not follow my own advice. I read blogs written by other mothers saying that sleep training caused their child to develop attachment disorders, depression, anxiety and even attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD).

I worried that sleep training would cause my child to feel alone or unsupported. The medical misinformation I read online made it difficult for me to “practice what I preached” and delayed my decision to sleep train; my baby. It was only when Madi was 11 months old and I was beyond exhausted that I decided to review the medical evidence. There are two medical studies that specifically examined the effects of sleep training on child mental health and development; both of which found no adverse outcomes.

Childhood mental health

A second study analyzed the effects of common sleep training methods on childhood outcomes including childhood mental health, sleep quality and disorders, psychosocial functioning and stress tolerance. It also analyzed the effects of sleep training on the child-parent relationship, maternal mental health and parenting styles. This study found no evidence that sleep training had negative effects on any of these outcomes.
Although it was heart-wrenching to hear my daughter cry when I put her in her crib; I had to trust the evidence over my fears. In my heart; I knew that a reasonably well-rested happy mother would be better for her. I reviewed a summary of sleep training; “Sleep training improves infant sleep problems; with about one in four to one in 10 benefiting over no sleep training, with no adverse effects reported after five years.
Maternal mood scales also significantly improve; with patients having worse baseline depression scores benefiting most. In this method, you put your baby into their bed after their normal bedtime routine and let them “cry it out” until they fall asleep. Upon exiting the room; caregivers can watch the baby on a monitor to see how much time it takes for them to settle.
Over time, the baby will gain skills to self-soothe and this time will less and less each night. After three days of applying this method, Madi was sleeping from 8 p.m. to 7:30 a.m. with no disturbances. She is a happier baby because she is rested and I feel like a new person with a full night of sleep.