An intimate relationship is an interpersonal relationship that involves physical or emotional intimacy. Although an intimate relationship is commonly a sexual relationship, it may also be a non-sexual relationship involving family, friends, or acquaintances. Emotional intimacy involves feelings of liking or loving one or more people, and may result in physical intimacy. Physical intimacy is by romantic love, sexual activity, or other passionate attachment. These relationships play a central role in the overall human experience. 
“No sex for six weeks” used to the standard advice following childbirth and; according to many doctors, it is still a good practice to allow healing. But it is not a hard-and-fast rule. Although a woman is at the highest risk for infection during the first two weeks postpartum (a period that could be longer if she had vaginal tears or a cesarean section delivery), the current approach is to let how a woman feels guide her.
Still, for many women, the return to intimacy does not always follow a schedule. Problems like vaginal dryness; painful sex and a lack of desire can stand in the way; often for months after childbirth. A study of 832 new moms published in the journal BMC Pregnancy & Childbirthfound that after six months 46% reported a lack of interest in sex; nearly as many experienced vaginal dryness and for 37% sex was painful.

Episiotomy or vaginal tears

These problems weren’t always connected to having had an episiotomy or vaginal tears. A lack of natural lubrication and even breastfeeding, which has been associated with a negative body image, were other underlying reasons. Another study of new moms, this one published in Obstetrics & Gynecology; found that other problems, not directly involving sexual function but affecting sexual desire; can start as early as one month postpartum and continue for six or more months. They included high levels of fatigue and stress along with continuing perineal pain.

The researchers also found another reason for the connection between breastfeeding and a lack of sexual desire: It can be hard for a woman to see herself as a sexual being while nurturing a newborn. One reason intimacy problems can persist is that many women are embarrassed to ask their doctor about them, and few doctors bring up the topic. So even though such sexual problems are extremely common, they’re rarely discussed in a timely way, if at all.

The answer? Sometimes, a return to intimacy requires practical planning; like finding ways to catch up on sleep for more energy, timing sex to baby’s nap; being open with your partner about what kind of touch feels good and what doesn’t. Try a new position and use a lubricant for dryness. However, if you are experiencing pain, depression or other serious underlying issues, talk to your doctor to find solutions.