The study find that the perception of old age is inextricably linked to my grandmother. When they was a kid; they think this 65-year-old, white-haired woman whose entire body wobbled when she walk was very old. Now that  66, my personal perception or perhaps; misperception  of old age has changed. Researches  suspect I’ve got lots of company.

The perception of old age

Many of us are convinced that while everyone else is aging; that person we see in the mirror every morning is magically aging at a somehow slower pace. The age confusion can start early. A 2018 Michigan State University online survey of respondents ages 10 to 89 revealed that most think middle age begins at 30 and that old age begins at, OMG, 50.

Another study, from the University of Zurich, published in 2011; determined that older adults often try to avoid the negative stereotypes of their age group by distancing themselves from their age group. Yet another study; from Columbia University; in 2018 found considerable evidence that when confronted with negative age stereotypes; older adults tend to distance and dissociate themselves from this negative stereotype.

Morning is magically aging

Call it what you will, but this gray-haired group of boomers and beyond  myself included is having a hard time accepting the realities of aging. Yes, we are mortal, but we’re not quite believing it. The great irony, say experts on aging, is that this flirtation with a slightly different reality from our aging peers may, in fact, be a healthy thing.

“Baby boomers are redefining what aging is and what old age looks like,” said Jennifer Ailshire, assistant professor at the Leonard Davis School of Gerontology at the University of Southern California. William Chopik, assistant professor of psychology and principal investigator of the Michigan State study, knows this better than most of us.

Psychology and principal

“People particularly older people  usually say they feel younger than they are,” said Chopik. “People who report feeling younger actually tend to live longer and healthier lives  and they don’t tend to have as much of a pattern of decline.” In most cases, people say they feel about 20% younger than they really are, according to the Michigan State study of more than 500,000 people.

This keeps ramping up as folks age, he said. Beginning at age 50, he said, many say they feel about 10 years younger. The fact we’re generally living longer than we used to also plays a role, experts say. “As our life spans get longer, so does our view of old age,” said Chopik. “How we view ourselves changes constantly as we age.”